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Gay For Stay: Men’s Prison Sex Habits Exposed in New Short Film


Gay For Stay: Men’s Prison Sex Habits Exposed in New Short Film


Earl’s Post Prison Playdate by Rod Gailes OBC opens discussion about situations where men indulge in homosexual activity only while in jail. One character in the film gives his own description of the term now widely known as “gay for stay:”

Niggas do what they gotta do. Ya know, if your lady don’t come through and see you, you gotta handle yours… Unless you a sissy you go home, get up with your broad and put that shit behind you.

Wow. Well, as we see in the film below, Earl has kinda sorta reconvened his activity once one of his prison buddies is released and it  takes a toll on Earl’s relationship with his girlfriend.

What are your thoughts on the film?

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  1. Alphonso

    May 28, 2012 at 1:30 pm

    Ladies….. Beware!!!

    • Cederic

      October 23, 2018 at 5:26 pm

      This video is soooooo, deep. Ide say regardless to standing by ya man when he returns from prison. Make sure he gets tested , be ause your health matters. Do it together an if hes not down, than it’s not worth dying together.

      Real talk.

  2. Trey Wiggins

    June 19, 2012 at 11:25 pm

    Yet another video that falsely blames the AIDS epidemic amongst black women on dl/gay men despite the fact that the center for disease control has stated that there is NO relation. I was hoping more attention would be paid to the actual romance between the two guys, but no it’s an AIDS psa. Women will have to start taking responsibility for their own bodies eventually.

    • ja talk

      September 12, 2016 at 6:59 pm

      Yo TREY….. Not blaming it on GAYS…. but it do happen when straight men get infected…. and INFECT the women they are ‘with’ If it were not the gay men…why do lesbians NEVER get it??? Women are NOT getting it from other women… Hetero sex is 45 times less likely to become HIV+ than gay men… So where might you think the virus gets into the guy???? Most of the time????? Yes men do get it from women (far fewer instances) and where do you think they got it??? Do due diligence when automatically getting defensive… Know the facts and allow them to sink in… This film is GOOD advice to WOMEN who have sex with men and trust them to be ”clean” (sic term) .. Stigma is even a bigger shown in tragic evidence by the date she died…. trusting him and what he said..

      • Ron

        November 3, 2016 at 5:07 pm

        Has it really been substantiated that HIV is a homosexual infection? I was taught that it is passed along through the transfer of blood and sexual fluids. I was taught that anyone that engages in recreational drugs that utilize needles and unprotected sex are at risk. Also the rare occasions of black market organs that slip pass the check points disguised as legitimate donor parts happen.

        This video portrays a popular stigma that has an abundance of truth. But had it been a case of of legitimate heterosexual couples few people would be willing to to believe that man was truly heterosexual. Seems like this stigma is playing both sides of opinion spectrum.

  3. Gil Pritchett

    August 23, 2016 at 12:41 am

    I enjoyed the film….very well done strong cast….although the mistique of HIV has become some what less hysterically alarming, if u will…it is still an issue in our communities of color….but more than that the issue for me watching the film was the fatherless children….which is just as devastating as the disease….I have never been to prison but we know that environment is what it is and the reality of that needs to be un- stigmatized in a way that young brothers and sistas can conversate about it and get a real truth about it….the film opens many conversations all to which WE need to not sweep under the rug. Thank u for the short…keep moving it forward. Peace and Love Bro. Gil…Namaste

  4. Keith

    August 23, 2016 at 4:21 am

    Like to also meet guys incorr..

  5. Donnie McDaniels

    August 23, 2016 at 8:03 am

    I know this all to well bcuz I am a gay male and I’ve been to prison 7 times and on each prison term I’ve gotten down with those si called straight aka bi aka DL guys but I did use protection and I am hiv- so yes trust me it does happen in prison and I am a witness to this

  6. Christopher price

    August 23, 2016 at 10:00 am

    I thought is was very ,(“what’s going on out here in these streets today-ish “)

  7. London

    August 23, 2016 at 12:16 pm

    Nothing but a FAKE ass man, who is really a faggot ass bitch spreading HIV/AIDS to stupid ass females. This shit was asinine and there is no such thing as “gay for stay” or “gay4pay” BITCH, yo ass is a fake bitch and a faggot.


    August 23, 2016 at 1:11 pm

    I thought the video was insightful, and it spoke in a language that was real. I’m sure that it will resonate with its targeted audience. Well done.

  9. Cheryl

    August 23, 2016 at 7:09 pm

    An eye opener.If you’re not going to abstain then use protection.Never give anyone the right to your body on their terms.

  10. Benny Cole

    August 23, 2016 at 10:28 pm

    Enjoyed this short film. I would love a full version if there’s one. This also needs to be shown to every black woman and girl!

  11. Heymahogany

    August 28, 2016 at 1:24 am

    That was so real. Omg that situation is happening on the daily. People be safe and protect yourself. It starts by getting tested.

  12. Sheila melton

    August 31, 2016 at 6:51 pm

    Juss sad

  13. ja talk

    September 12, 2016 at 6:50 pm

    ,,,DUH …. the CURE for the problem FREE — PrEP (the pill)…. ladies!!!!

    …….and PeP for the first time you get with it and DONT know for SURE,,,,…UNDER 48 hr for best chance to STAY HIV-

    New evidence…. over 97% effective in PREVENTING HIV … GET tested TOO.

  14. Christina GarciaBrown

    November 1, 2016 at 4:28 pm

    The sad part about this is it could have been prevented……smh….??????

  15. Cheyenne Santos

    November 1, 2016 at 5:05 pm

    Women do it too. We act so shocked that this would happen. I am strictly dickly *1000% but I might let another chica lick my box if I was on lock down for 20 to life.

  16. Noel

    November 1, 2016 at 11:21 pm

    What’s the name of this film?

  17. Devout

    November 3, 2016 at 4:47 am

    They got this new shit now: you get a bald head….if you rub they head, watch their asshole open…( o )…

  18. Niya Senay

    October 20, 2018 at 8:24 pm

    Strong, Facts and Real. Shows how secretive and destructive this virus really is.Get tested. Know who your dealing with and your status. Trust No One!

  19. Katina

    October 25, 2018 at 3:54 am

    Once they go to jail to do some hard time.leave that nicca alone and stop busting y’all legss open for every nicca you see Rather he’s in jail or Not…

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